Are you a Paper Tiger or a Real Tiger?
I have recently started reading the book: Shambhala: The Sacred Path of the Warrior, described as a “practical guide for enlightened living.” In it, author Trungpa talks about breaking old habitual patterns. He says that calling someone a toranoko- a Japanese term for tiger cub, used pejoratively is saying this “you mean that he is a paper tiger, someone who appears brave but is actually a coward.” And Trungpa then makes the declaration, “That is the description of clinging to habitual patterns.”
Likely, most of us aspire to be more like real, living tigers rather than paper ones, so why all the focus on not clinging to habitual patterns?
Thinking about what a habitual pattern is, I realized there is a neurological aspect occurring simultaneous to the display of the habit. In our brains, after we pass the age of three, we are mature enough to start making neural connections based on experience. Up to that point, our Limbic System is primarily driving our behavior. The Limbic System encompasses the functions we share with the animal kingdom, including such things as our “fight or flight” responses, our capacity for infatuation, as well as our process to store memories as pictures (as we mature we include narrative with memory). continue reading »